Cinco De Mayo Tweetup

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After being on the road for about a year, and still being on the road, it was not only nice to have a full week and a half at home but to actually get to go to an event put together by people I know. In this case it was the Cinco de Mayo Tweetup on Monday May 5th, my 2nd on that date, that was promoted by Sunny Hernandez @SunnyInSyracuse and Renee Benda @cusecomm. The event was held at J Ryan’s Pub, where I’d participated in a couple other things, including a previous tweetup.

Me and Sunny

Me and Sunny

The first guy to show up was Christopher Malone @Chris___Malone, and I know that because the 2nd and 3rd people to show up were myself @mitch_m and Kelvin Ringold @ kelvinringold. Eventually Sunny and then Renee showed up, and after that it was a slow and steady trickle of folks that came in, some I knew and some I was meeting for the first time. All of the people except for Kelvin I hadn’t seen in a very long time, so I was happy to be reacquainted with all my buddies and happy to meet new people.

Like who? It’s always risky when you start naming names because you’re going to leave someone out, but I’m going to do it anyway, since I’m still going to list everyone in this post somehow.

I have to start with the guy I thought was the most compelling person of the evening for me, Justin Piscitel @jpiscitel, who told a harrowing tale about being in a major motorcycle accident, his recovery, and his dreams of jumping out of airplanes and climbing mountains; wow!

Katie and Nikita

Katie and Nikita

There was Justin Ryan Lynch (imagine, two Justins in one place lol) @justinryanlynch, who I initially thought might be part of the restaurant but actually handles some of the social media management for Visit Syracuse, a site which helps promote the home city and has its own Twitter handle, @visitsyracuse. Later someone else showed up, the only person I didn’t get to personally meet, named Nikita Jankowski @NikitaJankowski, who also works for them.

There was Zainab Storms @blahnikbaker, a young lady who’s studying neuroscience at SUNY Upstate, a field I know is tough as my wife works in it. And Stef Noble @stefnoble, whose name I’d seen often over the years on Twitter but had never seen, and I only got to say a couple of words to her.

The final two people I’d never met were Mike Vormwald @vormwald, a software developer whose name I kept having problems pronouncing, and to whom I introduced myself as Busby Berkeley (Sunny would like that one) and Matt Wheeler @SaltCityFanboy, of whom I don’t remember what he does but I did introduce myself to him as James Earl Jones (inside joke that he didn’t question). Lol

The rest of the folks? Well, I had to reintroduce myself to Katie Krames @KatieKrames, who has one of the best smiles ever and whom I’d actually met during the big kickball game in the summer of 2011. And of course my buddy Kevin Magdon @kevinmagdon, who also writes on Twitter for the Doubletree off Carrier Circle (@SYRDT) and who gives me free cookies from time to time (shhhh…).

Renee, Frank and Josh

Renee, Frank and Josh

The rest of the gang were Teri @Mama_T_Says and Lorne @zbdaddy Coon, Frank D’Agostino @dagsly, and the soon to be wedded couple of Jenny @jennyshear and Josh @joshshear Shear.

It was a great time and the event lasted just over the 2 hours we’d allotted. You can look at how many people showed up to know that it was a great success. And I think I might be the only person who got out of there without imbibing an alcoholic drink; it not, maybe one of the folks here will tell me about it. I can’t wait for the next one… whenever I get back home again that it.  

2014 SOHO Show

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Last year I wrote about the SOHO Show (Small Office/Home Office) at the Oncenter and I decided to write about it again this year, though it probably won’t be as much as I wrote last year, and I consider last year’s post one of my short ones.

20140501_120857 This year I not only went with my wife, but I was representing my consultant’s group, the Professional Consultant’s Association of Central New York. I manned the booth for about an hour, which felt a little strange for two reasons. One, I’ve never manned a booth at something like this, and two, I hadn’t seen any of these guys since October, as I’ve been out of town most of the time, so I felt like I was getting reacquainted with people as well as meeting some new people.

I’m certain not shy when it comes to meeting people in a business situation but I was hampered by a bad back, which I know had me swaying back and forth. Near the end I got a lesson on how the greeting process should go, which I could have used earlier, and it’s an interesting lesson for everyone to learn for their businesses.

People would ask me about the group and I’d tell them, along with giving them information and encouraging them to check us out and to come to a free meeting. The guy I was with, pretty much a master salesman, said that the better way to go would have been to state the name of the group, give a short preamble, and then ask them what it was they did. His take was that pretty much anything they responded to would lead you back into talking more about the organization, and possibly get them more engaged and get them to fill out the form for a free membership. Hey, I did get some people to fill it out, so I wasn’t all that bad, but he got more; lesson learned.

After my hour was up I decided to walk around with my wife to check out the booths which, like last year, went really fast. Well, because of my back hurting that was kind of a misnomer, but I only spent time at one booth, even bypassing my normal stops at the Dinosaur booth and the Chocolate Pizza booth. I stopped at what turned out to be the Business Journal News Network, which most of us just call the Business Journal, and got a massage in one of those comfortable cushy chairs from Gustav Hoffmann, who’s not only an account manager for them but the son of former politician Nancy Larriane Hoffmann; cool right? I met her only once in my life, at a fundraiser for another politician, and she was nice as could be.

I barely made it around in an hour, which means I was at the event for 2 hours, and that was all my back could handle. Because I was manning the booth from 11 to 12, I missed a presentation by a lawyer friend of mine, Todd Engel from Engel Law Offices; maybe next time. I missed all presentations; maybe next year I’ll be able to plan better, since being home was a fluke.

In any case I’m glad I got to go, and probably the only downsides were the weather and it would have been nice to have more people. On that second issue… parking! And look, this is longer than last year’s article; yay!  

5 Things I Wish Would Change At The NYS State Fair

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I’ve been going to the New York State Fair for decades. I’ve always had a good time, but over the last couple of years my wife and I have gone to the Fair and headed back home in less than two hours. At first I wondered what the problem was, but as I sat down to think about it I realized that we’re both bored with what we see.

20130901_111456_resized It’s not that we don’t like going, but I’ve gone at least 30 times over the years, and I’ve noticed how some things have changed since the first time I went, and not necessarily for the better. I also figure I’m probably not the only one who has some issues with the Fair. So I thought that I would spend some time listing five things I wish would change to maybe make things feel a little bit more fresh and festive.

1. Let’s get some new things for the Center of Progress building. Back in the day, you used to go to the Center of Progress building knowing that you were going to see some new technology along with some favorites such as the sand sculpture, the fudge in the corner, and of course all the government and special interest group booths. Last year they finally had something new, and yet it was something old, that being recliners that massaged your entire body; all of them hurt me in some way. Since Syracuse is trying to publicize itself as a technology center, it would be cool if some of that newer technology or newer products found a place in the building, and maybe move a lot of the things such as candy and peanuts somewhere else.

2. Someone’s got to say it, so it might as well be me. When it Syracuse suddenly become a country town? From my perspective it seems that the majority of the Grandstand major concerts every year are either country acts or teenybopper acts, and I can’t even remember the last time I went to a performance of anything. There needs to be more diversity in the major acts, and I’m of the opinion that people will pay more money for some performers who might not normally play for smaller crowds but might be willing to come play at an outdoor venue. I remember some major acts that used to come play in the 80s, so someone has to be willing to come play now.

3. Put more effort into advertising which animals are going to be on display on which days. The last couple years have been disappointing to me, and that’s saying something because I usually don’t like animals to begin with. However, I did try to go see the llamas and the sheep, and some other things I can’t remember right now, only to be told that they were displayed in the first couple of days and then sent away to bring in different animals that were more common. Maybe there’s a schedule posted somewhere, since those who display the animals obviously know when to bring them, but I don’t know how to find it and I can’t be the only one.

Mitch Touches A Cow4. Find a way to boost the energy both in the dairy building and the horticulture building. The butter sculpture is always pretty good, but the displays and booths in the building leave a lot to be desired, especially for us non-milk drinkers. And some of what I have seen in the horticulture building over the last couple years has been pretty boring and lackluster, and it has to take more than people being able to spend a dollar for a baked potato to really get our juices going.

5. Aren’t we New York? I’m of the opinion that over the course of 12 days there should be at least two days where there’s some kind of “wow” factor. Maybe it’s famous actors who were originally from the Central New York area; maybe it’s famous athletes who were originally from central New York, or played for Syracuse University. I think it would be great to bring in people like that, or even other famous people, to spend three or four hours somewhere signing autographs and taking pictures with the fairgoers. And if you advertise it far enough in advance, you’d probably get some amazing crowds and you’d give the public something that they’re not going to get at any other state fair in the country.

That’s what I have for now. Does anyone else have any ideas that they think would help to stimulate more interest and more fun at the New York State Fair?  

An Interview With CNY’s Lauren Greutman Of I Am That Lady

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Lauren Greutman is a star. She’s on Bridge Street often, has a very successful blog, and was highlighted in Syracuse Woman Magazine as the May cover story, was highlighted in a promo video for it, and also writes articles for them. She’s also a very nice person; the first time I met her in person, after we’d been talking on Twitter for a while, we hugged each other as if we were old friends. I hope you enjoy this interview.

LaurenG0021. You are that lady! How did you come to be I Am That Lady?

I was washing the dishes one night after teaching a coupon seminar where one lady asked me if I could start a blog. I thought to myself “I am just that crazy coupon lady” and that was where the name was born. I searched on GoDaddy to see if the domain was available and was shocked that it was!

2. I don’t remember how we first made contact, but I know I saw you on local TV, Channel 9’s Bridge Street. How did you get to do that and will you be doing it again some day, maybe on a more regular basis?

I think we started chatting on Twitter first, and then the rest is history :-)

I actually went on Bridge Street for my first time about 2 months after my blog launched because I was teaching a coupon seminar at a local event and they wanted someone to talk about it. They sent me and I was so nervous. I really hit it off with Chris, Kaylee and the producers and they just kept on inviting me on. They started asking me to co-host about 2 years ago and Chris and I loved working together. I was doing a weekly segment but it was just too much for me. I go on about once a month usually to co-host and try to put my own segment in there as well. I was actually applying to be the co-host after Kaylee left, but then I found out I was pregnant with my 4th child and knew I couldn’t do it all. I consider it a blessing that I got pregnant because my goals are much more focused on my brand now.

3. What prompted you and Renee Benda into starting up the local blogging group?

It is actually all Renee, I just helped her organize some of the social media elements.

4. You know a lot about the local businesses and also deals from national businesses that are in central New York. How do you get all of your information?

I get hundreds of emails per day from PR agencies, companies etc. I look through all of them and forward the ones that I know my readers will like onto my assistant who does most of the postings. It is tough work looking through them all and weeding out the good ones, but I try really hard to post only the deals that my readers like and that are valuable to the main goal of my website.

5. On my finance blog I wrote that sometimes a deal isn’t a deal if you have to drive too far for it with the cost of gas these days. You live in Oswego, which means you’re probably driving far for many of them. How do you reconcile distance with savings?

I totally agree! Since I live in Oswego I do most of my shopping there. I do not shop at Wegmans unless I am up that way. I do most of my shopping at Price Chopper, Aldi, and Walmart because they are all about 5 minutes away from my house.

6. How do you believe your online business grew to the point where your husband was able to leave his job and work with you from home? I know many people would love to be able to do that.

LaurenG003_1I think networking has been key in my success. I started going to blogging conferences and learning how the bigger blogs were doing it, I read all I could about SEO and social media. I had dedicated over 60 hrs per week for the past 3 years into my blog/business and it has paid off. My husband has been an actuary for the past 12 years and worked in Syracuse. He worked long hours and life was getting too stressful. We prayed about him leaving his job for over a year and after our 4th child was born, we knew it was the right time. I feel incredibly blessed that I was able to get through the tough times of being a business owner and blogger while being a mom. All my hard work paid off and we now get to live a life that is a dream!

7. I think you’d mentioned that your husband was going to become more of a writer for your blog so that different types of articles could be added. Will they be included within your normal content or will you set up different channels for it all?

We will be changing some things on the blog mid year which we are VERY excited about, but for now he is blogging under his name.

8. I know you’ve been working on a local blogging conference that, unfortunately, it looks like I’ll be out of town and won’t be able to get there. Can you talk about that and how you got into working to set it up?

Dan Morris is a blogging revenue coach that I met while in Atlanta 2 years ago. He is brilliant and has helped me learn so much. When I heard that he was starting his own traveling blogging workshop series I was SO excited to bring him here to Central New York. There are so many talented bloggers here that want to dig deeper into making money at this, and I knew that they would learn so much from him. We don’t have many advanced blogging resources in this area, so I thought it would be the perfect fit.

For anyone who wants to see what the seminar is about and wishes to sign up for it they can go to Blogging Concentrated and use the coupon code iamthatlady for $50 off!

9. I love when local folks get known nationally as well. Where have you traveled, who have you met, and are any of them as intriguing as me? lol

I have met many fabulous people. Last year I met with Michael Hyatt and John Acuff. I have bflown to Chicago, New York City, Los Angeles and Atlanta to meet with companies or speak at events. My blog was featured on air at Anderson Cooper’s day time show last year and I’ve appeared on the 2nd largest news program in the US in New York City. I’ve seen and met a lot of amazing people!

10. Talk about your book, why you wrote it, why people should buy it, and when it’s coming out.

We have an ebook coming out called ‘Budgeting That Works‘, which comes with 2 FREE customizable budgeting spreadsheets, a 10 day email course, a live webinar Q&A, sessions with Mark and me and much more. We’ve had to push back the launch for the book for now.

11. I’ve never done an 11th question but this is your time. What do you want people to know about you, your website, and anything else we haven’t already covered?

I want people to know that blogging is very hard work. Posting deals is the easy part and probably only about 10% of what I actually do. There is SO much that goes on behind the scenes. That being said, I am SO passionate about helping people learn how to budget and save money. I work very hard to bring only the best deals, coupons, and local products around and am very proud of what I do!

My blog is I Am That Lady, and you can also follow me on Twitter at @iamthatlady, on my YouTube Channel, and also at Facebook.  

My Top Ten Favorite Syracuse Basketball Players Of All Time

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You know, whenever one decides to put together a list like this they’re in trouble. Either you have trouble finding people to eliminate or you have issues with trying to get to 10 in the first place. Not that you didn’t have 10 people you liked, but you can get bogged down in your own minutiae and find that your own standards are suddenly too high to get to your magic number.

Then there’s the act of sharing such a subjective list. Everyone will have their favorite period, and you find that there are some players you might want to name that you never actually got to see play; that won’t work now will it? Or some players who are close to you in time and thus you think of them as your favorites without remembering until later just how much you enjoyed someone else.

I’m fearless like that, so I decided to undertake this task with some of my own rules.

One, they had to be players I actually saw play. This knocks out Dave Bing because I was only 7 years old when I could have possibly seen him, but my dad wasn’t a basketball fan so it never came up.

Two, no current players can be on my list. A couple of them might make it in years gone by, for for now I’m just going to enjoy them as a team that’s undefeated as of the time this post is going live, 23-0 with Pittsburgh on the horizon later this evening.

And three, to save myself a bit of agita, I’m not worried about placing them in a specific 1-10 order. Nope, not going there. Sure, they’ll be in some order, and I’ve decided I’m putting them in alphabetic order by last name just to save myself some grief.

Of course you can put together your own list on your blog so I can come by to pick on you, share some names in the comments, or tell me I’m crazy and why and move on with life. A bit of fun to warm things up on a Wednesday morning. Here we go:

Carmelo Anthony – Yes, this is alphabetical, but what more is there to say than the fact that he led Syracuse to the national championship? We only got to enjoy him one year here but he’s turned into a great NBA player and gave back to the university with the Carmelo K Anthony Center. Let’s see, how can we get juiced for this…


Roosevelt Bouie – Rosie stood out in more ways than one. Sure he was tall, but what a soft touch he had, along with that big afro. He was a pretty dominant force and one of the two cogs that actually brought not only Syracuse, but eastern basketball into real prominence on a continuing basis. You know his counterpart is on this list. :-)

Derrick Coleman – I loved watching Derrick play, and man, did he love getting those rebounds. I’ve never understood how so many teams forget that some players are left handed, and DC burned lots of teams because of it. And of course he helped get the team into the 1987 championship game and had 19 rebounds, almost double the next closest person.

Sherman Douglas – The General; what more needs to be said? He was the master of the alley-oop way before anyone else really seemed to be doing it with such proficiency, and he could score when needed. He led the team into the championship game in 1987 and scored 20 points.

Jonny Flynn – All anyone needs to know is that Flynn played 67 of the 70 minutes of that 6-overtime victory against Connecticut and scored 34 points to know why he’s on this list. I’m still of the opinion that if Donte Green hadn’t gone to the NBA after only one year this team would have easily gone to the Final Four. You know, we need a bit of that:


Gerry McNamara – Come on now, how could I leave G-Mac off this list? Those 6 3-pointers he hit in the first half against Kansas were big. Then in his last year he literally carried the ‘Cuse to the Big East Championship with a broken body. He gave it all and was superb in doing it; overrated my… hmmph!

Lawrence Moten – Talk about one of the smoothest players ever, and with those socks! I loved watching him play, and it seemed that he pretty much could score at will without effort. He wsa both Syracuse’s and the Big East’s all time leading scorer and the only player in ‘Cuse history to score 500 points 4 years in a row.

Louis Orr – You can’t have the Louis & Bouie show without Louie right? He had a smooth game as well but he also had a lot of heart. When Syracuse beat Tennessee and the vaunted Ernie-Bernie tandem it put Syracuse on the map for good and brought eastern basketball with it. And then all those great years with the Knicks; wonderful stuff.

John Wallace – Wallace was the man, lots of talent and heart and literally put the team on his back and led them to the 1997 championship game against Louisville. Take away that one bad call that gave him four fouls and led to his fouling out of the game eventually and we could have had that championship 6 years earlier.

Pearl Washington – Pearl! What more needs to be said? The most exciting player Syracuse has ever had, a guy who, when the moment was upon him, only failed once ever that I can think of (I still hate Walter Berry for that). I was at that Boston College game; nuff said. In his last year he led the team to a 23-4 record while leading the team in scoring, and a Big East Championship against Georgetown (you know how we feel about Georgetown). Yeah, we need some of this:


There’s my list; let’s see who’s on yours.  

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